There are almost certainly things about you or things that you do that you think are, well, let’s say less than sexy. It’s not that you think you’re the grossest or the ugliest or anything like that, it’s just that you are more than sex appeal. There are still workouts to power through, bodily functions to deal with, and other things to grapple with that can get in the way of feeling the “hottest” sometimes, you know? What you may not have considered, however, is that there are plenty of weird things that you think are unsexy, but men find really hot. Or, maybe you don’t find them unsexy, but they’re certainly not things you think of as definitely sexy — they just don’t carry a whole lot of weight on the sexy scale in either direction. Some men, however, find them pretty attractive, regardless of your feelings on the subject.
From body parts that many people would feel aren’t their best, to activities that aren’t so sexy, to overall looks that exude comfort over sex appeal, some of the things that men find really hot just might surprise you. Embrace you: your personality, your traits, your life — it doesn’t matter what men find attractive, but it’s still interesting (and surprising) to find that some of these things can do the trick.
You might not feel that you’re at your prettiest or sexiest when sweating like a pig during a workout (I know I don’t), but, according to Cosmopolitan, some men find a little bit of sweat to be very attractive. You think you’re a mess, but they think it’s hot.
What? Ovulation is sexy? If you’re trying to get pregnant, for instance, it might be, but what about the rest of the time? It’s probably not something you think is just inherently hot. You might be surprised to learn, then, that men find women more attractive when they’re ovulating. According to ABC News, researchers at the University of Texas in Austin found that men find an ovulating woman’s scent more pleasant than at other times of the month. Weird, right?
3. Messy Hair
Your hair is a mess with a capital M because you walked through a wind tunnel on your way home from work or you went to a hot yoga class or maybe you just woke up after a long, restful night’s sleep. According to the previously mentioned Cosmopolitan article, some men find messy hair sexy. Whether you tried so hard to perfect that messy bun or it happened that way by accident, guys find it hot.
4. Eating Messy Meals
You might think you’ll be embarrassed if you eat a messy burger or plate of spaghetti while on a date, especially if you haven’t been together that long, but, according to Glamour, some men find a woman eating messy foods sexy, thinking that it means that you’re not afraid to get a little bit dirty.