We’re all weird. The trick to finding love, therefore, is seeking out people who won’t just tolerate our weirdness. They’ll love us for it.
Luckily, a lot of the weird things that people do are completely and totally lovable. It’s important for a woman to find a man who loves her for her weirdness. And while it’s true that everyone is a little different, there are a few weird things girls do that guys love — for almost no reason at all.
1. The way you sleep
If your man loves you, he almost certainly enjoys — from time to time — watching you sleep. If he happens to wake up before you and turns around to find you fast asleep, chances are that he can’t help but smile.
Now, don’t think this means you’re an adorable sleeper. Some people are not pretty sleepers. Some drool. Some make awkward faces. But if your man loves you, then he almost certainly loves the way you sleep.
You may look like a weirdo, but he loves that weirdo.
2. The way you’re unwilling to admit you’re wrong
He knows you’re wrong. You know you’re wrong. He knows you know you’re wrong. But you’ll be damned if you’ll admit it. Instead, you’re going to argue and argue and argue… until he eventually gives up and lets you have the win.
The woman is always right, am I right?
He may not especially enjoy arguing with you all the time, but he does love how stubborn you can be. He thinks it’s cute — sexy, even. Every man loves a woman with a fire inside her.
3. The way you get scared
Sometimes your fear is rational, and sometimes it’s completely irrational. But he’s fascinated that someone can be so strong when it comes to the big things in life and so scared when it comes to the little things — like spiders. And rodents. And basically anything that’s creepy and/or crawly.
He’s happy being the one to kill the spider for you. He’s happy to walk you to the car at night because it’s dark and you don’t want to walk alone.
He likes that you’re afraid of some things because it allows him to step up and be strong for you. It allows him to be your protector — and even though he knows you don’t actually need one, he likes feeling like he’s needed.